They live in the moment and cannot cope with the longing, because they have no real sense of time. Its the biggest deal imaginable to that baby. Otherwise, you will reinforce her wishes to put distance between the two of you and her wish to go to the other person, where does not experience any bad emotions. Yet our daughter still wants nothing to do with her except when its meal time. Try to see her reaction in the light of her little crisis, dont take it personally and dont worry. I am so confused and sad. Anyways here is the question: The childs mother wants to see her but obviously we are afraid shell take off again. Can you please help? the only way she would stop crying is if i gave her to her caretaker. I found the update posts from those parents who were in this situation and came out the other side especially helpful. He pushes me away tells me not to tell him I love him. But from what you write, it sounds like this is a fairly new thing? Children are not there to build our self-esteem, they cant and often wont, especially if we expect them to act in a certain way, or to be thankful or loving, because we treat them well. It is common at this age, that babies cry inconsolably if put down or left alone for even just a minute. I have only returned this week to work after 11 months off with my 11 month old baby girl. grandma was kinda showin me the ropes and showin me some tricksi also do alot of running around during the day so grandma watches her.now, when i have her and she gets upset she screams for mme. So they want to carried around the clock, wont play by themselves, cant be handed over to anyone else but mom or possibly dad without screaming like there was no tomorrow. there was even one night where she pushed me away and tried to crawl away when i got near. do my twins love me less? have a 7 month old baby and have been going through the same thing ever since he was born. I have a 2 year old daughter. The "opt out" revolution of high-earning women exiting the labor force to have babies, widely publicized in the early 2000s, may have been overstated. So youve done great job. I understand what you are saying about your little girl. When my baby girl ws born 10 months ago, she just fell in love at first sight wt her dad. Yes, I believe he should be happy, but I stop him from doing things that will lead to undesired future habits and behaviors. It really hurts. I hope what you said is true and its just a phase. My husbands dad invited us to go to Branson and get away before my Husband starts the engineering program at K-State. 6. Also if I am holding him and she walks by, he struggles to get away from me. The sun will rise tomorrow, and tomorrow is a fresh start. If I feed him, he fusses, straightens. He does, I know. What should I do Please help. After all, during their first twelve months babies still physically need mother's milk. It hurts me so much inside and i dont know what to do. However, there is no way of telling ahead of time whether your baby will go happily from breast to bottle and back again. Pennsylvania mom Rebecca Shumard gave birth to daughter Eden at 27 weeks. A boy and a girl. After reading these posts I made sure to remain absolutely calm and neutral and not get teary or upset when he preferred his daddy over me. That way, you will keep making enough milk and will be less likely to get plugged ducts or engorged breasts. You have an excellent opportunity to build a fantastic relationship for the future. My Mil also doesnt treat me well and still my child goes to her unknowingly. I just wanted to post an update and some encouragement that things really do get better with time. I just persevered like you, and it really did get better. This will help you to feel connected with your baby. It took effort from all of us to get to where we are now, but forgiving each other and moving on as responsible adults to give our boy a good life, is one of the best things Ive done in my life.). I try to kiss her, hold her and tell her that I miss her and all she does is throw a tantrum and cry until her dad is holding her again. A wonderful thing to do in periods like this, is to spend time alone with the child. Paula, Stay At Home Mom Rejected By Baby I have never been away from her for more than 2 hours before this and now she doesnt even care to see me. it is breaking my heart. this is not your fault. Tonight is especially bad, he pushed me aside to get to my mom. Try bub sitting facing away from the caregiver. Hi! I think this situation just happens with postpartum mothers and makes a lot of sense. i relly need some advise before i go crazy please :(. It sounds similar to what many of you have posted, and Im glad to know that Im not the only one going through this. Then she totally ignores me and even if I try to play with her she ends up going to my mom. Continue to do things alone with your boy that is an excellent way to maintain a good relationship even when he has become an older kid, teenager and adult. Those five weeks where he preferred his daddy over me where the hardest things Ive had to face since becoming a mum. But it can take some time to start enjoying the ride ;-) please give me some advice. I even think sometimes grandma secretly enjoys doing this to me. Try carrying your baby's photo with you at your workplace. In fact she would crawl away if i come near her. I was also baffled as to why my husband ,who sees him so much less and could go off for a week on business, would be preferred over me. If I am not around she is fine with her mom to an extent but still keeps pestering her mom wanting dad to come home and do things. I've tried Philips avent, pigeon and now using hegen. I am also the sole breadwinner in my family. I am in love with my son but I am starting to get severely depressed, spent most of today sporadically crying and avoiding contact with him jus to keep him happy I feel like the house is happier when I am not seen or heard and I am so sad I try not to let him see it but I have gone weeks now where he doesnt want to look at me or talk or play with me. Im the mother who wrote nearly a year ago that my baby boy didnt seem to love me, I posted later that things seemed to be improving and now, at 18 months, I feel absolutely loved by my son. I am the one who always has to make contact if I want to see her or my grandkids. I hear a lot of guilt in what you write. Your toddler has been used to having mom all to themselves. Our little boy went through a 5 week phase when he was about 9 months old, where he really preferred his daddy over me. But now my loving daugher has became a real little terror. I breastfed for the first four months, and we definitely bonded. Recently, its really been getting to me. Not to make light of this happening to the dads out there but I think that is more common than the moms as, for the most part, we are the primary caregivers. Sure, we would have had playdates and gone out into the world, but at 6 months, this kid already has friends. One technique used to get babies to accept the breast has been called rebirthing, but this is essentially just laid-back breastfeeding in the bath. She didnt when she newborn and she doesnt now. Create a soothing atmosphere 3. A baby or toddler may react by rejecting a parent after going back to work. Any idiot can get pregnant but being a loving mother is something entirely different. This time is so precious and so short. I feel as though he hates me. For a few weeks before my mat leave ended, I let myself soak in all the pre-emptive nostalgia, mourning all of our "lasts": our last mat-leave breakfast, our last mat-leave walk, our last mat-leave . Hi all. It makes me very sad because she tried so hard for her and I feel like I waited my whole life to have a child and she is our only one and now I wonder what I am doing that is so wrong. I love him so much and have never felt so hurt or rejected. She breaks her back trying to look for him when he leaves the room. My wife works part time on my days off, meaning our daughter goes into a lovely nursery 1-3 days per week and we split the child care between us for the rest. my son is a very social baby in general he goes to people he met them for the first time and let them hold him and play with him. I have been struggling with the same thing for the last two weeks. I am not defending what the babys mom did. But the guilt you are feeling may very well delay the bonding. what you said makes perfect sense. You might feel really, really sad about going back to work, but you might also feel really excited. And do things together all of you. When i do, shell cry & scream for daddy. My husband sees him an hour per day if that and goes out of town a lot. I was nothing more than a pain in the ass to her. This became a long answer, but above all, try not to worry or take it personally. i know i need to love her now but do feel so sad when she pushes away from me. please help im worried that she might endup hating him. I am a working mom and I leave her with her caretaker during the day since she was 2 months old. Have you ever considered that? Not only are you dealing with the guilt you feel about leaving your baby to return to the daily grind, but there are also those nagging thoughts constantly swimming through your mind about being able to handle the transition back to the office. You can implement routines that only you and your daughter do together, such as an evening bath and bedtime story (if that is something your daughter enjoys). It started off with biting and scratching and now she is hitting me. If she is with me then she walks a way the moment she hears or sees her grandma. Its the school holidays now and its like even though im spending more time with him, there are times he prefers his grandma. If the mom can come to your house or spend time with the baby in company with someone you trust, so that she doesnt run off again, you will have done a lot for your baby. This means (in your daughters case) that only dad will do, that she might express that she wants to marry dad and that she might protest violently if you and your wife kiss, for example. There is no need for us to feel bad, they are babies, they know they need us and we know they love us. Is soo upseting bcuz this just sterted like a week ago befor it seemed that i was his everyhing he lovedd to be with me! Ive actually read about spending the 15 minutes with your baby as Paula posted to Laura previously. But, I do know I cant wallow. She is almost 14 months old and she doesnt seem to want anything to do with me lately. And then I would try to get busy with something else and just basically not make a bigger deal than it already was for me. I cant quite remember if this started at around the same time but she no longer wants to be with me she will reach out for anyone else who is around, and this is really upsetting for me. And even after that, it is still entirely possible to bond. Even the same morning, she wanted to be with me and when she woke up from her nap, she did not want me around. There are a few things you should have on your list during the discussion: Congratulations on your little daughter! Anyway, Im not writing to give a full update on my situation but instead I wish to respond to your posts. I have been her sole provider since then, her father and I are no longer together, though she sees him often, but she seems to recognize him and holds her hands out to him and is so happy when he comes. Im so happy he still wants to breastfeed though and didnt completely write me off but he just doesnt seem happy to see me like he did his daddy and that hurts so much especially since I cried cause I missed him so much. Or I bundle them together, rather than giving each one of them time. i feel so alone and depressed. Because I was in a very bad place myself over this issue, I understand your pain and encourage you in the strongest terms to get support for yourself. We laugh all the time! One explanation to why your daughters reaction is so strong might be that 9 months is a sensitive age. Congratulations on your little daughter. If this board is any indication it happens quite a bit. Maybe cuddle up the three of you in her bed for a little story or lullaby? for a couple of hours, she just hugged me while eyeing him and after accepting the fact that daddy was really there in person, she just went 2 daddy like he never left. Even if i hold my hand out for her, she clings to my MIL and my husband. I wake him up with a bottle in the morning and put him to bed with a massage and kisses and rocking at night. Its just so strange I dont know what to do!! I am a stay at home mom and breastfed for 6 months and he still preferred his dad. Six weeks is the average length of time needed for a mom to recover after giving birth. If Im the only one home she wants me, but if dads home, its mommy who? This really hurts my feelings since I do everything for her, I want to hold her and play with her so bad but so often she rejects me. this is just a phase. Or maybe you will visit your baby at their child care provider during your lunch break and breastfeed. It hurts so bad and I feel like a failure, but I have to work to make money. She is also my miracle child since I have a problem to conceive. My mom says this is wrong and that i should just let her go. It has been 37 years and we are not close. He also loves his father and grandmother. Heartbreaking! She has now outgrown the reflux but has become a very fussy feeder.Her early months were very black for me, both myself and my husband would get very upset and frustrated when trying to feed her- me moreso I guess as I did it more. why does he do this?? It is totally heart breaking. read about this website and how it all started here. Im starting to worry about the mother. Much more effective than disciplining a child. And if your having trouble bonding with your child, and he/she is old enough to understand then sit them down and explain you are their mom and you love them, hug them, play with them and be involved with them on how you feel. However, my daughter seems to want nothing to do with me. i dont know why he is acting like this .Does he hate me or doesnt feel secure with me ? I do everything to make her happy and when she is alone with me she is happy but the moment she sees her grandparents or father she forgets me and rejects me. Whereas, with her, he SCREAMS. I play with him, Ive teacher him words in (Greek) we read books everything!!! I spent a lot of time crying and have found it hard, but I have loved my son and spent 7 months with him looking after him playing with him feeding him etc. dont get me wrong, she just doesnt seem to have any kind of attachment to me at all.it makes me feel worthlesssomeone replaceableis this something that will pass, or should I talk to her doctor? Here is the background: Ive been dating my boyfriend for over a year but knew him and his daughter since she was 8 months. Or has anyone here experienced their toddler crying when they hear the parents voice on the phone and they are fine once they see them? My daughter is constantly wanting my attention and is not happy when im not around. i am a working mom. Give your girl as much time, love, attention, and body contact as you can. You sound like a fabulous mom. But they have become my competitors And I start having bad feeling towards them. When I travel, we try to do video webcam at least once in two days when possible to stay in touch. January 26, 2013. She goes to everyone and she does not seem to miss me if i am not around. No phone, no computer, no cleaning, cooking, working, or thinking about other things. Which just doesnt help at all! Ignore the unwanted behaviour and praise the good an all that but God its hard when my feelings are in shreds. Even if hes holding her and I try to give her a kiss, she turns away and gets upset. I really hope this was at least a little bit of help. Pin it or frame it at a place where you can give a quick look. bottomline she just wanted my husband.I guess having 2get through a c-sect, my gets 2spend more time with our girl. It must be very confusing for her. The study found 17 percent of women experienced anxiety. Parenthood is a great opportunity for personal development! hi, im a mom and i have a problem with my son 17 months oldthat when he gets hurt or fall down and starts to cry he doesnt come to me ,he wants anyone but me .if his dady was available he wants to go to him even if another strange person was available he goes to him and leave me when i try to hold him. My 9-month-old daughter has started recently. 1. This still happens when, for example, he seems disinterested in me when I pick him up from daycare. At around 7-10 months many babies go through stages of separation anxiety and stranger anxiety, meaning that they are terrified to be left alone and/or meet strangers. Its just that when my husband and i decided to start trying for another baby i quickly had changed my mind and decided i wasnt ready yet and that i was content with it just being me, my husband, and our first son, but it was too late and when i decided to not try anymore i already conceived. I just want to cry and cry. Daddy is a play toy and thinks he comes and goes and is fun, but deep down I know she loves me and cant live without me. We dont know what happened while she was in the other state but I think she needs to have that bond with her mother. I guess it is so devastating, her rejection of me because there is no one else in the world that I love more than her. 2 weeks after I had my baby boy I got Post Partum Depression very very bad but I wasnt pushing my baby away I would feed him and play with him everything that I could do for him not to feel my anxiety and depression I am finally out of this depression but I noticed that my son (11 months) would rather be with his aunt than me. Then, regardless of if she wants to go to dad, grandma or the neighbour later on, you can hopefully rest in the fact that the two of you have had a fun, loving day together. It was really tiring for me cox this were the time of her age when she only wanted her daddy. Lots of quiet, cuddly games with your little one on your lap. Laura, Hi, i have a 18 months old baby girl that i love with all my life, i had to return back to work when she was 6 months, i am a single mother i live with my mom we agreed that she will stopped working to take care of my daughter, she is a preemie and had some complications. They simply need this period of increased closeness to gain new courage. They need physical closeness, frequent eye contact, reassurance, tenderness and loveand it must be consistent and from the same personpreferably from the mother, who also feeds the baby. My partner is the light of his life. If you are off balance, she might notice and you thereby reinforce the rejection. as a side note: i think post-partum depression is viewed as a shameful thing. I have come on to this site to read these postings a couple times over the past couple months and while I am relieved to see that I am not the only one, I want to know why this is happening? He wont come to me when I hold out my arms, wont play with me on the mat (where we were having a ball only a few hours earlier) and pushes me away when I hold him or cuddle him. Baby swim classes, where the parent is with the child in water (if the baby likes it, of course) is a wonderful way to have fun together, for example.). She has always been a daddys girl and he is her main attachment figure despite not being her main carer. Disguise the bottle. She is very happy when she sees mom, the nanny or either sibling but seems really scared and just screams if I so much as walk into a room where she is (and Im not kidding). Here's what we tried, and what finally worked! I thought my son did this because of his cesarean and my dh being the one to help. My daughter is nearly six months old and she gets really grumpy with me. Babies react in different ways when mom (or dad) suddenly starts working. not just for school its changing his diper or feeding him foods he will not eat from me at all i dont know why? It really upsets me because her dad or greatgrandmother can get her when she starts doing this to me and she is fine. Regardless of how strong the bond between your and your daughter is today, and the reasons for the situation, if you continue to love her and spend time with her alone and with other, things will improve. I rush home to see her and she cries/moans when she sees me I hold my hands out to her and she clings to whoever she is with at the time. I feel robbed of the moments that I didnt get to enjoy with him, she pushed to give him his first bath and has done so much as she says she is helping. I do the same, care, dress, cook, feed, bottle. Im in need of some help here. Dont let this woman take your child. Just ask her to really try not to show her emotions to your daughter, but rather focus on having a good time with her when you are not around that will certainly build on their relationship for the coming years. I dont know what to do. With more time spent doing other things (or doing nothing), you are more likely to be able to stay calm, be patient and so one when she is putting up a fight. If you're going to continue pumping, have a plan in place. I can understand that your sons behavior is making you sad. Paula, I have read all of the posts and it is kind of a double edge sword to say that I am glad that other people are or have gone through the same things that I am going through. Acknowledge your feelings without judgment, and then cry, laugh, journal or call a friend. Im so depressed over this. I have to give her a bath, I have to brush her teeth, I have to feed her, I am the only to play with her and I am the one to read bed time stories. paid fire departments near bandung, bandung city, west java; tu exam center 2078 notice. That doesnt mean that he doesnt love you. Within a week I was less upset and things were turning around. Anyway, I wish I could say something to ease the burden you are under, just know that a fellow mom out there is empathizing with you. I have tried to brush the way my son behaves off, and put it down to just being a phase, but it has gone on for so long now. I was born to an ignorant mother who failed to nurture me. My son has done this to me ever since he was about 4 months old. I recently read a study about the massive positive effects of just spending 15 minutes with a child every day 15 minutes with 100% focus on the child. Its the opposite of what you think. Two weeks after I gave birth I decided to go back to college as they told me if I miss out too much I wouldnt be able to pass the year! I work full time and my one-year-old goes to daycare 3 days per week and stays at home with her dad 2 days per week. When he's with me. I cant help having my heart broken. There is a worker at her nursery who she is not keen on and she scratched her yesterday which puts me in the same category as her I guess. At 15 months, she lives in the present. But it is so important! They can also act very competitive towards the parent of the same gender. But doesnt mean that you should just sit and wait! i also wrote here several months ago. You can also make sure your baby finishes one breast before . they will be happy, more emotionally-healthy adults because of the love we giveeven if they seem to ignore it now, they need us. At the moment we are living in India with my husband and his parent, my son seems to be attached to them more than me. By Alice Gibbs On 6/23/22 at 12:17 PM EDT. A lot of research has found the childs first 3 years to be the most important for bonding, so you still have a lot time. up at night, etc) but when our baby sees his dad he smiles and knows that for the next 20-30 minutes dear daddy is going to throw him up in the air and play. Tips for Going Back to Work After Baby and Easing into a Routine. Your baby is enjoying the world around him and right now grandma is great fun. i try to spend the most of my time with her but maybe its not enough, i wish i knew where i went wrong. He even says lots of words including daddy, bruh bruh for his brother, nana, papa, juice, more, he even says my niece and nephews names, Michael and Mattie, but he has never said momma! My son is now 14 mos old and he is bonded to me. I understand so much the pain you are going through. Im a single 18 year old mother who still lives at home with my parents and siblings. 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